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How to Stop Being Dominated and controlled by your man?

Saturday, April 11th, 2009

Not every single person enjoys being independent after falling in love. There are men who will control and nag women for no reason. Are you feeling that he is insisting too much on you and spoiling your independence?

No more of feeling caught and it’s out of control. If he does not understands or allows you to tell him that he is dominating then it is simply not love. Over a period of time it will turn abusive. When it comes to love, then understanding, confidence, mutual respect everything plays a major role. A man should never dominate his girl. If so do not react, listen to him carefully. Note down what all he has to say. No point in arguing with a guy is dominating. After the problem is over and he cools of then point out how he was dominating and controlling you and how it would not give any solution. Make him understand politely how you feel when he controls you. Try to find out what makes him dominating so that you can find a solution for it. Other than that if you too loose your temper things will only turn worse. No point in actually arguing or fighting when he is trying to control you. His reaction will turn worse and aggravate the problem. It is the male egoism. He thinks that he knows everything and you have to follow his words. Some take it like that but in a long run there will be a lot of misunderstandings. So avoid it in the beginning itself. Give him some gap make him understand that you cannot take his domination any more. Always be positive do not react by showing anger. Try to make him understand in a soft manner so that he cannot react and also give him some time to change.